Here is a compilation of some of the many questions I get asked about the tarot.
I heard it is better for someone to give me a tarot deck rather than purchase it myself. Is this true?
This is an old wives tale. I would still be waiting after over twenty years of reading the tarot if I did not purchase my deck. If you want someone to get a deck for you, go ahead and ask. In the UK tarot cards are tax deductible for professional readers, so gifts are not much use.
What is the best Beginners deck?
Go for a standard Rider-Waite deck as that is what most decent tarot books use. Avoid gimmicky decks if you can. My preference is the Thoth Tarot for the beautiful artwork and depth of meaning and interest. Clients really love these cards.
What is the best way to shuffle the cards?
Avoid the Casino Riffle - it damages the cards. Don’t force the cards either. Some people swirl the cards around the table, which really jumbles them up. Long shuffles do not necessarily make a better reading.
Can I reverse some of the cards when I shuffle?
Reversing the cards brings greater choice and diversity to a reading. Some tarot readers cannot cope with this however. If your tarot reader has problems with this simple idea, find another reader. I am very happy with my clients reversing some of the cards when they shuffle.
What do I do when some cards ‘jump out’ when I shuffle?
Pick them up, put them with the rest of the cards and continue shuffling.
Why does my Tarot reader want me to cut the cards with my left hand?
This idea is based in gypsy superstition. Ask your tarot reader why this is necessary, and see what mumbo-jumbo answer you get.
Does a reversed card have the opposite divinatory meaning?
If there is only one card on a position, it is possible that the opposite meaning applies, but this is too simplistic. Some cards like the 10 Swords are negative, so does that mean it has a positive meaning? What would that be? Before deciding on the meaning of a reversed card, look at it in the context of all the other cards.
Some tarot readers insist that it is not moral to charge for a reading.
They obviously have a rich partner, or they do not have to work for a living. They are not lean and hungry for the tarot. Paying for a reading is an energy exchange. Tarot readers have to pay for goods and services just like everybody else, and they have to pay rent for the office, electricity, taxes, etc. I value my knowledge. I have spent years and years developing my skills, and I know that what I have to say in the tarot reading has the potential to transform lives. On this basis, I should charge more. I do not know about you, but most people are happier working (and it is work) when they know they are getting recompense for their time. When I make myself available for tarot readings I cannot be doing other things.
Should I pay before or after a reading?
I do not insist, but payment before the reading starts is better.
Can my friend/relative be with me for the reading?
Tarot readings are private. They are an opportunity for you to discuss personal details about you that colleagues/friends/family do not necessarily know. People say they know everything about each other. We all have secrets. Even if they do know everything this is not a good reason for being there.
Can my friend/relative come with me? She does not want a reading…
This is an ever better reason for not having them with you. The tarot reader does not know how much people really know about each other. The presence of an extra person means that I will say less, not more, so you lose out.
Do you tape the reading?
No. People who have their reading taped invariably ’switch off’ during the reading, as they intend to listen to it later. This means that they are not fully in the present when the reading takes place, which is a waste. Tarot readings are confidential, as confidential as a Catholic Confessional. I do not go around discussing your personal details with other people afterwards. Properly conducted, a tarot reading will have very personal details that you would not want other people to hear. This is why people have a reading - they want to discuss their life with someone who is not part of their work and social circles. I have no control over who hears the tape, and nor do you. What happens several years later when your circumstances change, you have a new partner, or you did something that nobody knows about, but is on that tape? Would you want anyone to hear it? Think of the trouble it could cause.
I don’t want to hear bad news…
Define bad news. Bad news is as different for everyone as good news. What you think is bad news may turn out to be good news. I do not necessarily know what is bad news for you. My experience is that people who are worried about bad news generally do not have any bad news coming up.
My friend tells me I should not give anything away during a reading
I would doubt that this person is your friend. A tarot reading is a brilliant opportunity to talk about your life in confidence. You are not there to test the tarot reader, you are there to find out about your life. My regular clients start the reading by telling me what happened since we last met. They are not interested about the past; they want to know about the future or the solution to a particular problem.
Can I ask questions?
Please ask questions. I would much rather talk about what you are interested in. Questions from you help to clarify some aspects of the reading that are not necessarily clear to the reader. It is better to ask one or two questions rather than a long list.
The future is fixed. We cannot change our fate.
The future is most definitely not fixed. Fate can be changed. We usually define our fate as those aspects that we cannot change. Concerns such as this show a passive approach to life. “What is going to happen to me?” is the classic question which signifies a fatalistic viewpoint. If you look at your life, you will probably find that ‘what happens to you’ is usually not good, and you lose your confidence over a period of time. On the other hand, if you make things happen, things usually improve. Changing your outlook and attitude to life often brings about change to the future. A good tarot reading will offer a choice of directions and possible outcomes.
My first ever reading was amazing! Brilliant! However I was not so impressed with subsequent readings. What went wrong?
Nothing. If you were not impressed the first time it is doubtful that you would go back for another reading. Now you know that tarot readings work, use subsequent readings to gain greater knowledge about your life. Empower your life. Have a dialogue with your tarot reader - you could be amazed about what you learn.
How do I become a professional tarot reader?
Charge for readings. If you charge for readings people will think you must be good. People do not respect free readings, but that will not stop them taking advantage of you, pestering for readings all the time.
How much should I charge?
Find out what other tarot readers are charging in your area and make sure you are just above the minimum fee.
Where can I start doing readings?
Again, this depends on your location. If you are on very good terms with a professional tarot reader they may allow you to sit in their place for a few hours to get some experience. That is how I started. You could hire a stall at a Psychic Fayre. Do not tell your clients that this is your first time.
What is the law on tarot readings?
There is no law against reading the tarot or divination in the UK. Unless you make outrageous claims about your abilities Trading Standards Officers are unlikely to pay you a visit. Caveat Emptor or buyer beware is the guide. If you are unsure, ask your local tarot readers or your local council for guidance.
You may fall foul of the Fraudulent Mediums Act if claim to be a spiritualist when you are not, but very few people have been prosecuted.
Are all these free tarot readings on the internet worth it?
No. Tarot readings require a real human being talking to a real human being. Free tarot readings from a computer are soul-less. Computer programs are not much better.
What about those phone readings advertised in the papers?
A very good friend of mine works on the tarot phone lines and he does an excellent job. I cannot speak for the rest.
How do I learn the Tarot?
The free lessons on Supertarot are a very good start. Avoid any course that does variations on “A card a day…”. The best way to learn the tarot is to do readings. Tarot readings are as much about the intereactions between people as the cards.
I have problems remembering the meanings of the cards
So do I. In over twenty years of reading the tarot I have never got through a reading without having problems remembering the meanings of some of the cards. Focus on the cards that you do know, and as you work through the reading you may well find that the answers will come into your head. Tarot readings are not about memorising cards, so do not worry about it.
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